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Motra nuk e dine qe burri i saj ka nje lidhje tjeter dashurije, ajo ka vuajtur shum te bababi por tani vuan edhe tek burri i saj...

The sister does not know that her husband has another love affair, she suffered a lot with her father, but now she also suffers with her husband…


Hello, readers of History of Life !!. I am a guy in his 20s. I have been living and working in Germany for some time. What I am going to write to you tonight is actually not a story but more or less a request for help and advice. We grew up in a simple family but with a very strict father. We have experienced both mental and physical abuse from our father. Like children, like mom. We have always lived in fear of dad (in fact, we still feel that way, scared). I have a sister, 30 years old, married, with two minor children. It’s been a few weeks since the husband took it here in Germany, but he is without documents. The reason I am writing is precisely my sister. She has had a rather difficult life. They married her without asking. But even in the husband’s family, he did not find paradise. There were frequent arguments and insults from her husband and mother-in-law. As you said, my father was always harsh. He never supported his sister. She tried to hurt herself several times in her husband’s house. But even when she was once a girl, she poisoned herself in our house and the doctors narrowly saved her. He has always been a very sensitive guy, but he never bullies anyone first. But it doesn’t last long. Now she has a problem because she gets nervous often and can’t control her irritations. She often took care of her young children. Although she regrets it for a moment, she does this every time something annoys her. The man does not understand, nor does he help. I have told him many times that at least he should not touch the children, but he says that sometimes I lose him completely. He has been suffering from terrible headaches for two years, he often gets nervous even without a strong reason. Her husband told her to be very careful here because the state will take your children and as long as you have a life as you see. She is scared now, but her nerves are worse. Above all, the bad thing is that her husband has been having an affair with another woman for some time, but I never had the courage to tell my sister. I learned about his relationship through a friend of ours, but she is not aware that I know. And I’m young myself, without papers. I didn’t dare and I don’t even have the opportunity to do anything. All I want from you is to know how to act with my sister, whom I have as the light of my eyes, I love her very much. Her husband has even threatened to take the children away. My sister doesn’t even agree to get psychological help for herself because she says I’m not crazy. Who of you tells me, if the sister asks for help in the women’s shelters with the children, what are the chances that they will help her? And where are these centers because I have no idea. I am located in Frankfurt for information. Please advise me and help me somehow to get a direction. Because I can’t see my sister and I don’t even know how to help her. We are still traumatized as children because of our father and we can’t stand it if someone takes us by the foot. Who can help me with any advice. Or accurate information about these women’s centers. Let me get my fb address here in the editorial office and write me privately, please. I would be very grateful if you could help me even a little bit. I’m sorry for taking a little longer. With respect.





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